Enjoying a dinner recently at Barton G. on Miami Beach, I met a pair of locals who had a unique view on dating once you have established yourselves as a couple.

It becomes more challenging to find other couples to socialize with, said Doug and Diedra. This makes some sense when you consider most of your single friends would prefer to hang out with other single friends and not with a couple who reminds them first hand that they are not in a relationship.

Doug and Diedra, who have been a couple for about a year and a half, said they sometimes only mesh with one of the pair. That can lead to some awkward moments -- you can't really invite just one of them out. Or perhaps a couple is great the first time you double date, but later, they're not as compatible.

Doug and Diedra's solution? A Match.com style website, but for couples to meet.

Ingenious idea, I thought.

''Please don't tell anyone,'' Diedra said. ``We're hoping to start the model here in Miami.''

''Don't worry, secret's safe with me,'' I assured her.

They went on to say that this would not be a site for swingers to meet. It would be geared to young professionals who share the same business and social interests. You could meet for dinner, hit the clubs or go see a movie together. Even increase your circle of friends.

Regardless, the site could have helped prevent one of their more awkward couple moments.

Three Sundays ago, Doug and Diedra invited their neighbors over for some grilling and chilling at their place. They watched some football. They cooked some steaks. Created a great spread of food. Shared some wine and had a blast.

Two Sunday's later, they invited Diedra's co-worker and her boyfriend to grill. This time, they watched baseball, but their setup was the same: steaks, the same spread, same wine vintages. Hey, it worked once, so why not again but with a different couple.

What they didn't count on was for their neighbors to get a whiff of the steaks and walk on over unannounced.

So when Doug opened the door, he let his neighbors in, introduced them to their friends, and felt awkward.

''It was like we had just been caught cheating,'' Doug said. ``We had the same food and everything, and our neighbors noticed it, too.''

Fortunately the neighbors politely left, not wanting to crash the party -- a party they had already attended once before. But their message had been sent: This was their territory and they were coming to claim it.

Perhaps if there was a ''DoubleDate.com'' this awkwardness could have been avoided.

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